Do I need a visa?+
Many nationalities enter without one for tourism and receive a stay decided by the immigration officer, which can be much shorter than the maximum, so keep your entry document and check the number of days written on it. Others need a visa arranged in advance. Verify your case with a Mexican consulate before you book.
How safe is it really?+
Safety in Mexico is regional, not national, and the difference between states is enormous. Oaxaca city and the Yucatan are among the calmer parts and receive millions of visitors. Read your own government's advisory by state before booking, use registered taxis or apps, avoid intercity driving at night, and do not carry more cash than a day needs.
Should I do a temazcal?+
Only with someone who treats it as ceremony rather than a spa add-on. The lodge gets extremely hot and dark and doors are sometimes kept closed for long rounds, which is where people get into trouble. A responsible leader screens for heart conditions, pregnancy and blood pressure, keeps water available and lets anyone step out without argument. If that is not offered, skip it.